When ordering flowers for funerals, many people feel overwhelmed about the variety of arrangements they have to choose from. They may also be worried about following the proper funeral flower etiquette.
Some things to keep in mind:
- funeral flowers are generally sent by those who knew the deceased or their family fairly well, like friends or relatives (except for floral tributes by groups like professional associations)
- sympathy flowers can be sent even after the funeral has passed
- some cultures and religions do not traditionally display flowers at a funeral, and some places of worship may have specific rules about displaying flowers
- when ordering funeral flowers for delivery, the funeral home or local florist can answer many questions about what flowers are appropriate
There are many types of arrangements to choose from:
Vase and Table Arrangements
These arrangements are sent either to the family home or the funeral home directly. They are often a tribute to the deceased, and can include the deceased's favourite colors or types of flowers. They are often displayed in a container like a glass vase, and are available to suit a variety of budgets. Some funeral homes have rules about displaying glass vases, so it is always wise to ask before ordering.
Floral Wreaths, Crosses and Other Floral Tributes
These are floral arrangements formed into a particular shape. Wreaths and crosses are very popular, but floral tributes can even be customized to include the hobbies of the deceased. They are sent directly to the funeral home.
Casket Sprays and Lid Arrangements
These types of funeral flower arrangements are ordered by the family. Casket sprays are a spray of flowers that cover a portion or all of the casket. Lid arrangements are smaller bouquets or corsages that often represent the children or grandchildren of the deceased. Generally, any flowers displayed on or inside the open lid of the casket are chosen and ordered by the family.
Funeral Flower Sprays
A larger spray of flowers displayed on an easel at the funeral home. There are many sizes and varieties of funeral flower sprays to choose from, suited to many budgets. These arrangements are delivered directly to the funeral home.
In Lieu of Funeral Flowers
Many florists offer gift baskets containing flowers, specialty foods, or live plants. Sympathy gift baskets are usually sent directly to the family. Live plants are also a good alternative to flowers They can be delivered either to the funeral home or to the family home. After the services are concluded, the family will have a living tribute to the deceased.
Cremation
It is generally appropriate to send flowers to be displayed at a cremation. A local florist may even have suggestions for specific arrangements in areas where cremation is common.
Flowers After the Funeral
Flowers can be sent at any time. Sending sympathy flowers some time after the funeral lets the bereaved family know they are still in the sender's thoughts.
It is always wise to consult a local florist for funeral flower delivery, and any questions that may arise about flower etiquette. Many times, a local florist will be familiar with the funeral home, and may even be familiar with what funeral floral arrangements have already been ordered. If no local florist is available, it is possible to order funeral flowers online.
Sources:
"Choosing Sympathy Flowers", Freytag's Florist, accessed January 17, 2011
"Funeral Flower Etiquette", Flowershop Network, accessed January 17, 2011
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